Friday, November 21, 2008

Hope

Seven years ago when Matt died I felt a suffocating darkness descend upon me. I did not believe I would ever experience light again. However, the Comforter, spoke to me. I literally heard these words, "Francie, you do not yet have a testimony of Hope... but as you pass through this experience you will know what hope is." I knew in that moment that I was not alone. I have studied and read about hope. I have prayed for hope and practiced hope. I felt my own personal feelings stated aloud as President Uchtdorf spoke on hope in October conference. The words he spoke were my own... they were a reflection of my own testimony. How grateful I am for the gospel of Jesus Christ which teaches all things we must know and do to return home to our Father in Heaven.

Hope in God, His goodness, and His power refreshes us with courage during difficult challenges.
But Why Then Is There Despair?
The adversary uses despair to bind hearts and minds in suffocating darkness. Despair drains from us all that is vibrant and joyful and leaves behind the empty remnants of what life was meant to be. Despair kills ambition, advances sickness, pollutes the soul, and deadens the heart. Despair can seem like a staircase that leads only and forever downward.
Hope, on the other hand, is like the beam of sunlight rising up and above the horizon of our present circumstances. It pierces the darkness with a brilliant dawn. It encourages and inspires us to place our trust in the loving care of an eternal Heavenly Father, who has prepared a way for those who seek for eternal truth in a world of relativism, confusion, and of fear.
Hope is not knowledge, but rather the abiding trust that the Lord will fulfill His promise to us. It is confidence that if we live according to God’s laws and the words of His prophets now, we will receive desired blessings in the future. It is believing and expecting that our prayers will be answered. It is manifest in confidence, optimism, enthusiasm, and patient perseverance.
In the language of the gospel, this hope is sure, unwavering, and active. With hope comes joy and happiness. With hope, we can “have patience, and bear . . . [our] afflictions.”
The things we hope in sustain us during our daily walk. They uphold us through trials, temptations, and sorrow. Indeed, there are times when the darkness may seem unbearable. It is in these times that the divine principles of the restored gospel we hope in can uphold us and carry us until, once again, we walk in the light.
We hope in Jesus the Christ, in the goodness of God, in the manifestations of the Holy Spirit, in the knowledge that prayers are heard and answered. This type of hope in God, His goodness, and His power refreshes us with courage during difficult challenges and gives strength to those who feel threatened by enclosing walls of fear, doubt, and despair.
Hope sustains us through despair. Hope teaches that there is reason to rejoice even when all seems dark around us. -President Dieter F. Uchtdorf

Thursday, November 20, 2008

Remembering Matthew

I look at the blogs and enjoy seeing the pictures of young mothers busy with their children and recall the wonderful years when my children were small. I loved becoming and being a mother to Jill and Matt. They were delightful and beautiful children and I always enjoyed being in their company. We had alot of fun together and it is a great blessing being an eternal family.
Our family truly wasn't complete until our Matt joined us in 1986. Jill was born just two years earlier in 1984. This is our first family picture with the four of us together. It was taken just after Matt had arrived from a long journey from Korea. He smiled and smiled and so did we!!
Yesterday, November 19th, was the anniversary of Matt's death. We miss him. He is always in our thoughts and our prayers. We cherish all the sweet memories we have of him and love him more with each passing day. We feel him close to us and are filled with gratitude once again that we are an eternal family. The picture above is a picture Matt chose to put on my computer as a screen saver many many years ago. It represents serenity for me and always reminds me of my Matthew.

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Carl Allen Link's Family

Nathan and Yuritzin Link
On October 24, 2008, Nathan Link got married in the Billings Montana Temple. He married a beautiful young woman from Mexico. Her name is Yuritzin. He met her while on his mission in Mexico and then waited for her while she served a mission also. Nathan is my Aunt Orpha's youngest grandson. In the picture are Nathan's brothers, Chris and Cameron.
Chris and his family live in Boise, Idaho. His wife's name is Brooke and his children are Connor, Garrett, and Kennedy. Cameron lives in Burlington.
I loved my Aunt Orpha. She had a severe stroke and was in the Powell Nursing Home for awhile. Just before she died she was in the hospital in Powell. I had gone to work and learned that she was not doing very well. Her two sons had spent the previous day with her but had gone back to work. I felt a strong impression that I needed to be with her. I left work and went to Powell. I sat with her in the hospital and she died in the afternoon. I was so glad to be there with her. I was once again thankful for the promptings of the spirit that come to us so often which lead us to do good things. She died in August just shortly before my sister, LaRae, died.

Monday, November 3, 2008

The Mighty Huntress

Jill is rather awesome! She hunted the deer on the farm. It literally just walked out of the corn. She got a good shot and took it. This is a great looking dry doe. She will grind the meat and make jerky. A meat many of us enjoy a great deal. I remember LaRae shooting a deer so she could make jerky to sent to Vietnam when Sam was serving in the army in 1969.
Jill not only shot the deer but she gutted it. Her husband, Jake, was very proud of her!! I told her.... she can hunt and butcher the deer and I will raise and butcher the chickens and we can keep the children fed!! There is something comforting about being self sustaining and capable.

Monday, October 20, 2008

Remembering Dad

"For they all knew it was all Great Grandpa Bunny Bunny's plan."
This quote was taken from the Golden Book titled, Walt Disney's Grandpa Bunny. It was first published in the early 1950's but was just published again last year. It was my favorite childhood book and the favorite of my brother John and my sisters, LaRae and Cheryl. I would encourage you all to find this book and read it to your children. It reminds us of the miracle of Grandpas and the greater miracle of Life Eternal.
My father, John Robert Oleson, was born October 9, 1918. He died October 25, 1999. He is not forgotten. His life was an example to us all. He loved us and his farm and his country. He believed in family, honesty, keeping the Sabbath Holy, the word of God found in the Bible, and observing strictly the Ten Commandments. I will always remember Robb's prayer at Dad's funeral. It was beautiful and comforting. I remember he expressed his gratitude for his Grandpa's example on how to treat a wife and children. My father was a gentle man, a kind man, a man you could count on to help when help was needed.
The picture above is a beautiful sunrise taken at my home last Saturday. I remembered Dad. He was a Great Grandpa Grandpa!!!

Tagged by Jill

4 things I love about my life:
1. My great... fabulous husband!
2. My adorable daughter and handsome son-in-law!
3. My perfect granddaughter!
4. My home

4 things I love about my husband:
1. He's loves me as much as I love him!
2. He helps me do dishes and laundry and will even vacuum!
3. He listens to me!
4. He loves and serves the Lord when and where called!
5. I must add he loves being a father and grandfather!!

4 movies I would watch more than once:
1. The Saint
2. Pride and Prejudice
3. Ever After
4. Camelot
5. Fiddler on the Roof (I know, that is five movies)

4 books I would read more than once:
1. The Book of Mormon
2. Marley and Me
3. Pink and Say
4. The Christmas Miracle of Jonathan Toomey

4 jobs that I've had:
1. Speech Therapist
2. Medical Clinic Receptionist
3. Book keeper
4. Truck Driver (beets, beans, barley, corn, etc., I wasn't a long haul driver)

4 things I was doing 10 years ago:
1. Caring for my Mother who had Cancer
2. Watching my daughter, Jill, play volleyball
3. Watching my son, Matt, play football
4. Participating in the community play, The King and I

4 things I hope to be doing in 10 years:
1. Watching Grace and my other grandchildren play and learn
2. Growing and canning fruits and vegetables from my garden
3. Serving the Lord
4. Helping my husband with his herd of cattle!!

4 people I'm tagging:
1. Cheryl
2. Amy
3. Suze
4. Lynette

Friday, October 10, 2008

Rozella's Birthday

Chuck, Ken and Rozella

Rozella and Ken shared a dinner of baby back ribs at Famous Dave's.
We traveled to Billings to help celebrate Rozella's birthday. She is my mother-in-law and I love her very much. She is kind and supportive of us and cares about us very much. She raised a wonderful son whom I am blessed to have as my husband and father to our children. Ken reflects often on what a wonderful mother she was when he was small and how wonderful she is now that he is grown. We pray that the coming year will be a wonderful one for her and that she will find many blessings awaiting her!